Are your children being used as weapons? If your ex is refusing to see your children or withholding your children unless you give in to their demands, then you’re dealing with a manipulative personality, aka a narcissist (if they have been clinically diagnosed). The way you WIN with this type of personality is to disengage directly from their attack. But, maybe you’re fearful of what they will do next… Fearful of how they will treat the children when you don’t have them, fear