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10 Things Kids Wish They Could Say When A Coercive Parent Uses Control, Guilt, or Pressure
Divorce and separation are difficult for everyone involved. While parents often focus on schedules, court orders, communication, and conflict, children are frequently carrying an emotional burden that goes unseen. In high-conflict dynamics, children can become trapped between two worlds. They may feel pressure to manage a coercive parent's emotions, hide their own experiences, or remain silent about what they truly think and feel. Most children won't say these things directly

Jan & Jillian
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Why Children Appease a Coercive Co-parent: The Psychology Family Courts Often Miss
Some children have learned that survival is suppression. They sit quietly and say nothing happened, or that it wasn’t that bad. And family court professionals falsely assume everything is okay. Custody shifts and children are stuck in unsafe homes. But silence is not safety. Denial is not the truth. What looks like a child protecting a parent is far more often a child protecting themselves from further abuse and neglect. They are the ones that have to go home to this paren

Jan & Jillian
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