There was a time when you could feel the shift before anyone else did. A pause in their breathing. A tightening in their jaw. A subtle change in tone signaled that the evening was about to turn. Your body knew before your mind caught up. You learned to scan for danger the way other people scan for weather. You calculated the risk in seconds. You chose words carefully. You mapped exit routes automatically. You managed emotions, yours and theirs, just to keep the peace. And som