How to recognize the patterns, and what to do next. There’s a quiet kind of loneliness that lives inside a coercive marriage. It’s the feeling of walking on eggshells in your own home. The way your chest tightens when you hear their car pull into the driveway. The voice in your head whispering, “Don’t make it worse… just get through the night.” You tell yourself things aren’t “that bad." You tell yourself every marriage has problems. You tell yourself you’re strong enough to