One of the biggest misconceptions parents have during divorce or custody proceedings is believing that a parenting plan only determines where the children will be and when. While parenting schedules are certainly important, they are only one piece of successful co-parenting. The quality of communication between parents often determines whether a parenting plan succeeds or continually ends up back in court. The question many parents ask is: "Can I include communication provisi

Divorce and separation are difficult for everyone involved. While parents often focus on schedules, court orders, communication, and conflict, children are frequently carrying an emotional burden that goes unseen. In high-conflict dynamics, children can become trapped between two worlds. They may feel pressure to manage a coercive parent's emotions, hide their own experiences, or remain silent about what they truly think and feel. Most children won't say these things directly

How to recognize the patterns, and what to do next. There’s a quiet kind of loneliness that lives inside a coercive marriage. It’s the feeling of walking on eggshells in your own home. The way your chest tightens when you hear their car pull into the driveway. The voice in your head whispering, “Don’t make it worse… just get through the night.” You tell yourself things aren’t “that bad." You tell yourself every marriage has problems. You tell yourself you’re strong enough to

When co-parenting involves coercive control, children can experience emotional, psychological, and even physical harm. Courts have a long way to go in recognizing that patterns of manipulation, neglect, and control indicate parental unfitness. Since most court professionals aren’t trained in psychology or coercive control, here are behaviors to look out for when it comes to documenting your case or showing how your coparent may be unfit. Here are 12 Signs of an Unfit Coparen