Creating Courageous Children
How to Raise Resilient Kids with a Coercive
Co-Parent — Exact Phrases That Work
From Coercion
To Confidence
Your child deserves to grow up grounded, confident, and emotionally equipped, no matter what your co-parent brings to the table.
These scripts help you guide your child through manipulation, guilt trips, and emotional confusion with clarity, compassion, and strength without disparaging your co-parent while adhering to your court order.
Challenges Your Children May Face
Creating Courageous Children Course offers
"These scripts gave my child the language to protect their heart." Before using these scripts, my daughter would shut down anytime her other parent criticized her or twisted the truth. I’ve seen her grow more confident and stop internalizing the chaos. These scripts gave her a voice—and it’s one filled with wisdom and courage.
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— Melinda R., mom of 2
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Jan and Jillian are dedicated to helping co-parents and families facing co-parenting complexities by amicably resolving disputes and increasing constructive communication for a peaceful resolution. They help families establish firm boundaries, develop case strategies, heal unresolved relational trauma, support the psychological and emotional health of everyone involved, and create loophole-free co-parenting plans with a child-focused approach.
​Jan and Jillian's experience and background:
20 years of experience in Family Psychology
Masters of Counseling
Certified Professional Coaches
Certified Mediators
Certified Crisis Counselors
Certified Deception Detection & Body Language Experts
Certified Micro-Expressions Experts
What You Will Receive
Over 180+ Scripts for Everyday Moments
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Help your child handle comments like “your mom/dad doesn’t love you,” sibling comparison, “you’re the reason why mom & dad argue,” or sudden changes in plans without internalizing shame or blame.
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Critical Thinking Prompts
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Encourage healthy mental development by helping your child think independently, ask wise questions, and build discernment in emotionally complex situations.
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Comebacks to Coercive Commentary
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Age-appropriate ways to respond to subtle digs, favoritism, or guilt-laced statements without being disrespectful or reactive.
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Developmental Tools for Emotional Intelligence
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From identifying their feelings to expressing them safely, these tools nurture your child’s ability to self-regulate, make empowered choices, and communicate their needs.
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Confidence & Self-Worth Builders
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Undo the internal damage of blame, gaslighting, or emotional neglect. Teach your child to trust their inner voice, advocate for themselves, and feel secure with who they are.
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Family Identity Exercises
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Help your child understand shared family values, where they belong, and what it means to be grounded in empathy, respect, and honesty.
Why This Matters
for Your Child’s Development
Children in coercive co-parenting dynamics often feel torn, confused, or emotionally responsible for maintaining peace. Left unaddressed, this can impact their sense of identity, emotional maturity, and future relationships.
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These scripts empowers you to be the safe, steady, emotionally attuned parent they can rely on while also teaching them how to:
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Navigate tension without people-pleasing or shutting down
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Develop emotional language and self-expression
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Recognize manipulation and respond with critical thinking
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Set age-appropriate boundaries with respect and confidence
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Build resilience without hardening their heart
The earlier children learn these tools, the stronger their self-trust becomes, protecting them from toxic dynamics throughout developmental years and adulthood.
""My son no longer blames himself for things that aren’t his responsibility."
He used to feel responsible for our financial stress and his other parent’s moods. After using the courageous kids scripts together, he’s learned that it’s not his job to fix everything. He even told me, “It’s not my fault when adults don’t get along.” That moment was everything. Thank you for this gift."
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— Jason M., single dad
This Is For You If:
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You’re co-parenting with someone who uses control, guilt, or manipulation
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Your child is starting to mirror confusing or critical behavior
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You want your child to feel emotionally safe, seen, and empowered
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You believe in teaching, not reacting, when conflict arises
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You want to break generational cycles and raise self-assured kids
"I helped my child see through manipulation without feeling guilty. My 10-year-old used to carry the weight of adult lies and emotional pressure. The scripts helped me guide her through confusing moments with honesty and love. Now she can name what’s happening without taking it on. She’s more grounded, more herself and I can finally see her inner light returning.
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— Sarah L., protective parent
Build Resilience. Restore Safety. Protect Their Innocence.
Children shouldn't have to navigate emotional warfare. These scripts help you protect their minds and hearts without putting them in the middle.​
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This powerful course offers over 180 professionally crafted scripts to help your child:
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Stay Present & Connected
Gentle language and co-regulation tools that help your child avoid dissociation during conflict or tension.
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Support Their Mental & Emotional Health
Responses and affirmations that help your child identify, name, and safely express their emotions in age-appropriate ways.
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Navigate Financial Stress Without the Weight
Tools to shield your child from adult financial issues while still being honest and reassuring so they feel secure, not responsible.
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Validate Their Experience Without Blocking the Other Parent
Graceful language to affirm your child’s reality and feelings without adding to conflict or fueling guilt.
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Keep Them Out of the Middle
Clear boundary-setting phrases that gently redirect triangulation and prevent your child from becoming the emotional referee.
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Overcome Shame & Guilt Imposed by the Coercive Parent
Empowering reframes and compassion-based language to help your child release toxic emotions they were never meant to hold.
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"She stood up for herself and I was so happy for her. My daughter used to believe she had to please everyone to keep the peace. The boundaries in these scripts are age-appropriate, empowering, and healing. Last week, she calmly told her other parent, “That’s your opinion, but I know what’s true for me.” Watching her stand tall with love and clarity made every tear and effort worth it.
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— Anthony B., father and co-parent
Creating Courageous Children
Real Talk for Real Families
Your child doesn’t need to be “rescued."
They need to be resourced.
They don’t need to be told how to feel.
They need to be seen and guided.
With these scripts, tools, and insights, you’ll help your child become a confident thinker, emotionally fluent, and self-confident, even when the other parent isn’t modeling the same.
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Set Your Children Up For Success
The Course Includes:
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180+ scripts
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Emotional regulation tools
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Confidence-building prompts
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Setting boundary scripts
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Family exercises
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Easy Downloadable PDF
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Grab the Scripts today and start creating courageous, confident children who trust themselves, no matter what dynamics surround them.
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Say what they need to hear.
Be the safe parent they trust.
One Time Downloadable PDF
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