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10 Things Kids Wish They Could Say When A Coercive Parent Uses Control, Guilt, or Pressure
Divorce and separation are difficult for everyone involved. While parents often focus on schedules, court orders, communication, and conflict, children are frequently carrying an emotional burden that goes unseen. In high-conflict dynamics, children can become trapped between two worlds. They may feel pressure to manage a coercive parent's emotions, hide their own experiences, or remain silent about what they truly think and feel. Most children won't say these things directly

Jan & Jillian
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The Hidden Dangers of Bribing Your Children: Why Money, Toys, and Trips Aren't the Path to Positive Parenting
In an effort to keep peace, encourage good behavior, or be the favorite parent in a tumultuous co-parenting dynamic some parents turn to...

Jan & Jillian
4 min read


Why Neglecting Child Activities Leaves Lasting Consequences
Is your co-parent neglecting the kids’ activities? Do they often put their needs before the kids and claim they can do what they want...

Jan & Jillian
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33 Validating Statements To Say To Your Child
I can see why you are upset. That must be hard. Wow, that must feel like a lot of pressure. That must be frustrating. That does sound...

Jan & Jillian
1 min read


How To Help Your Kids Use Critical Thinking Skills (When Diffusing False Statements From Coparent)
As a parent, you want to do everything you can to help your child succeed in life. One important skill that will help your child is...

Jan & Jillian
3 min read
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