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Before You Spend Tens of Thousands on a Family Law Attorney…Do This First
How to take control of your family law case, protect your voice as a parent, and use professionals strategically without bleeding money or leverage. If you’re in a high‑conflict co‑parenting case, you’re likely exhausted, overwhelmed, and afraid of making the wrong move. The legal system moves slowly, bills accrue quickly, and decisions made under stress can follow your children for years. Here’s the hard truth: most parents overspend on legal fees, not because they need more

Jan & Jillian
4 min read


Why Parents Must Build Their Own Narrative for Court
Court does not discover your story for you. If you don’t clearly and deliberately present what is happening in your child’s life, the court will default to fragments: partial records, third‑party impressions, and assumptions made under time pressure. Judges are not investigators. They rule on what is placed in front of them. That is why only parents can build their narrative for court and why failing to do so leaves critical context invisible. Your attorney won’t do it for yo

Jan & Jillian
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Subtle Signs of Coercive Control in High-Conflict Divorce
Divorce can be difficult under any circumstances, but when one parent engages in coercive control, it becomes an ongoing battle rather...

Jan & Jillian
3 min read


The Silent Invasion: How Coercive Co-Parents Violate Children’s Boundaries
Co-parenting should be about cooperation, respect, and prioritizing the well-being of the child. However, in cases of coercive...

Jan & Jillian
4 min read


10 Things Family Court Gets Wrong About Child Rights
Family courts are often viewed as protectors of children’s best interests. Yet, despite their good intentions, they sometimes get it...

Jan & Jillian
5 min read


8 Signs They Are Weaponizing The Children Against You
When divorcing a high-conflict co-parent (HCCP) they may continue harm you through the weaponization of the children. Many times they do...

Jan & Jillian
3 min read


Bridging the Gap Between Family Law and Family Psychology When Dealing with Coercive Control
Navigating coercive control in family court proceedings often reveals significant gaps between legal processes and deeper psychological...

Jan & Jillian
6 min read


Unveiling Post-Separation Abuse and Coercive Control: Top 10 Signs and What You Can Do About It
Navigating life after a separation or divorce can be emotionally challenging, but what happens when the challenges extend beyond the...

Jan & Jillian
4 min read


How To Protect Your Child from Becoming a Pseudo-Spouse
Co-parenting can be a challenging journey, especially when it involves a high-conflict ex-partner. In such situations, the risk of one...

Jan & Jillian
3 min read
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