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When Lies Become Weapons: How Coercive Coparents Undermine You and Your Child
There’s a chilling moment many parents face: a child asks a question, a friend hesitates, or a family member gives you a questioning look, and you realize that someone you once trusted is spreading lies about you. These lies aren’t casual; they are strategic, calculated to protect a bruised ego, maintain control, and isolate you from the people and resources that matter most. For healthy parents navigating this terrain, understanding the psychology behind these smear campai

Jan & Jillian
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Subtle Cues a Coercive Co-Parent Is Lying in Their Messages
If you’ve ever closed a message thread and felt oddly unsteady, not angry, not confused exactly, just… off. This is your intuition giving you signals that something probably isn’t accurate. Coercive communication rarely announces itself. It doesn’t come with obvious contradictions or easily disproven statements. Instead, it leaves you rereading, doubting your memory, and wondering if you misunderstood something that felt clear moments ago. That disorientation is not accident

Jan & Jillian
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Subtle Signs of Coercive Control in High-Conflict Divorce
Divorce can be difficult under any circumstances, but when one parent engages in coercive control, it becomes an ongoing battle rather...

Jan & Jillian
3 min read


13 Signs The Children Are Being Emotionally and Psychologically Manipulated by Your Coparent
Emotional manipulation by a co-parent can be harmful to children and can create a toxic environment. Here are some signs that a co-parent...

Jan & Jillian
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What Does It Mean To Gaslight (And How To Respond To Your Coparent)
When someone attempts to gaslight you, this refers to a manipulative tactic where they deliberately distort or deny your perception of...

Jan & Jillian
3 min read


Identifying Indirect Psychological Abuse Tactics in CoParenting
While some forms of abuse are obvious there are also indirect or more covert forms of abuse that are so subtle they will go under the...

Jan & Jillian
4 min read


10 Signs of Coercive Control In Coparenting
Most people think of coparenting as a situation where two parents work together to raise their children. However, coparenting can look...

Jan & Jillian
6 min read
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