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How Coercive Co-Parents Punish the Safe Parent Who Sees Through Them
One of the most confusing aspects of coercive co-parenting is that the conflict often continues long after the relationship ends. Many safe parents enter separation believing that once they are no longer living together, the hostility, control, and manipulation will finally stop. Instead, they find themselves facing new forms of retaliation. Schedules become battlegrounds. Communication becomes psychologically abusive . Parenting decisions are unilaterally made. False narrati

Jan & Jillian
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8 Signs They Are Weaponizing The Children Against You
When divorcing a high-conflict co-parent (HCCP) they may continue harm you through the weaponization of the children. Many times they do...

Jan & Jillian
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13 Signs The Children Are Being Emotionally and Psychologically Manipulated by Your Coparent
Emotional manipulation by a co-parent can be harmful to children and can create a toxic environment. Here are some signs that a co-parent...

Jan & Jillian
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Navigating The Negative Impact of Family Coalition in Divorced Families
Divorce is a challenging and emotionally charged process that impacts not only the couple but also their children. As families navigate...

Jan & Jillian
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Why The Narcissist Parent Chooses A Golden Child
A narcissistic parent has an inflated sense of self-importance that requires constant admiration and attention from others, including...

Jan & Jillian
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Signs a parent is projecting Munchausen by proxy onto the child
Munchausen by proxy, also known as factitious disorder imposed on another (FDIA), is a rare form of child abuse in which a caregiver...

Jan & Jillian
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Tips For Phone Calls Between Child-Parent When Kids Are At Other Home
When your children are staying with their other parent, there will probably be times when you need or want to have a phone conversation...

Jan & Jillian
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How To Prevent Parental Alienation With Your Co-Parent
Do you feel cut out of your children’s lives? When parents decide to separate, the goal should be to co-parent in order for their...

Jan & Jillian
4 min read
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