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Psychological Behaviors That Mirror Each Other, But Don’t Mean the Same Thing
In coercive dynamics, the line between protection and punishment can get blurry. What looks like distance might be safety. What feels like silence might be regulation. And what sounds like “honesty” might actually be intimidation. Many trauma responses and coercive control tactics look identical on the surface, but they’re fueled by completely different intentions. The difference isn’t in what the person does. It’s why they do it. Let's break down the psychological behavio

Jan & Jillian
3 min read


When “Good Advice” Becomes Harmful: The Worst Guidance Safe Parents Hear in Coercive Control Custody Cases
Divorcing someone who operates through coercive control isn’t a “high-conflict divorce.” It’s not two people struggling to communicate or...

Jan & Jillian
5 min read


Reclaiming Your Power: Turning Your Co-Parent’s Insults Into Strengths
When you’re co-parenting with someone who uses manipulation, name-calling, or insulting as a tactic, it’s easy to get pulled into their...

Jan & Jillian
3 min read


Why Children Suppress Emotions with a Coercive Parent and Release Them with the Safe Parent
In a coercive control dynamic, children often live in two very different emotional worlds. With the coercive parent, emotions are...

Jan & Jillian
3 min read


Bridging the Gap Between Family Law and Family Psychology When Dealing with Coercive Control
Navigating coercive control in family court proceedings often reveals significant gaps between legal processes and deeper psychological...

Jan & Jillian
6 min read
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