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Coercive Control in Co-Parenting: How to Document Patterns Without Relying on Labels
Co-parenting can become especially difficult when one parent experiences the other parent’s behavior as controlling, restrictive, or consistently interfering with their ability to participate in parenting decisions. In these situations, the phrase coercive control may come up frequently. However, identifying a coercive control pattern is not simply about collecting examples of conflict or describing a difficult co-parent. Meaningful documentation requires looking beyond indiv

Jan & Jillian
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When “Good Advice” Becomes Harmful: The Worst Guidance Safe Parents Hear in Coercive Control Custody Cases
Divorcing someone who operates through coercive control isn’t a “high-conflict divorce.” It’s not two people struggling to communicate or...

Jan & Jillian
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Reclaiming Your Power: Turning Your Co-Parent’s Insults Into Strengths
When you’re co-parenting with someone who uses manipulation, name-calling, or insulting as a tactic, it’s easy to get pulled into their...

Jan & Jillian
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Why Children Suppress Emotions with a Coercive Parent and Release Them with the Safe Parent
In a coercive control dynamic, children often live in two very different emotional worlds. With the coercive parent, emotions are...

Jan & Jillian
3 min read


Why Assertive Communication Is Essential To Co-Parenting With A Narcissist
Has Co-parenting become a struggle with your ex? Follow these 4 steps to to effectively communicating with your narcissist co-parent.

Jan & Jillian
4 min read
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